Malcolm Gladwell says that it takes 10,000 hours of deliberate practice to achieve mastery in a field.
I have been a parent for almost 100,000 hours. About 98,526 hours as of this moment. Subtract an average of 8 hours a day for sleep (though new parents know you don’t ever get that much sleep!) and the time that I’ve had both kids in school and that’s still 51,062 hours I have been consciously and physically parenting. So, I guess I’m gonna call that mastered. Bam. That’s Gold Medal level parenting right there.
Just don’t google the “10,000 hour rule” and read the titles to all of the articles there discounting that it’s even a thing. And don’t pay any attention to the fact that as your kid changes you have to change your parenting. Or that the parenting that works for one kid doesn’t for the other. Or that what used to be a good parenting practice, is now considered inappropriate according to the American Academy of Pediatrics. And don’t even think about how I’ve had an amazing partner doing a good portion of the work, or that I’m not even very good at math, so I may be completely wrong about how long I’ve been parenting… You know what, never mind.